The prayer. I prayed that I would stop being so lonely and that for just 5 minutes I could close my eyes and everything I had built in my business would still be there.
Lonely. Married with three kids. Friends by the dozens. Family all around. Hundreds of women inside of the most amazing tribes formed in my work. Teaching programs about joy.
Lonely. I sent the prayer up and since then its cascading message has been my beautiful work of learning to receive its truth.
Lonely. I find a journal from 1994. “Why is it that I am so lonely and scared inside of a relationship and without one?” I was 19. “I feel like I’m losing myself.” She left me a note from the past and I thank her deeply.
Lonely. To my core. Not because I’m not living a beautiful life, because I never learned how to be OK as me. To be whole and true and loved by me without the safety of another.
Lonely. Recently our marriage was rocked, deeply. Again. We both realized that we have so much healing to do as our own selves, outside of the ‘us.’ We don’t know what this means or what it will look like in 5 months or a year. But we are going through it with love and compassion and a whole lot of time to discover.
Lonely. Teaching myself, guiding myself to be with myself. Just me feeling whole and complete and inside this gorgeous life. Sometimes I feel like I am 19 again. Like I can feel her, see her, touch her. We aren’t that far away.
Lonely. And I am so OK with being here. I see this as all my life leading up to this moment of now. Of now. Of knowing that I can be in this place and not suffer. I can be here and in sadness or joy I can know me.
Lonely. I am seeking space to know her. That 19 year old and the 38 year old who is ready to look her in the eye and promise her that now we are strong enough. Now we have the spirit guides. We have the truth of now.
Lonely. I am joyful to be here. I am grateful inside of grateful to have said that prayer. To be here.
Lonely. To know that everything I teach is my guide. To know that you may be lonely too and I am breaking the silence for us.
Lonely. I am so excited to journey into this soulwork of becoming safe inside and no longer searching for that safety outside of myself. I pray that this is a gift I give to my children. But mostly to myself. A gift precious of wants and desires, a feeling of being juicy and alive with wholeness. Of knowing connectedness in its purest state.
Lonely. Yes. Yes. And joyful.
And I have closed my eyes and the words are still there. I have closed my eyes and nothing faded away. I have closed my eyes and shown you my tears and you all whispered, I see you, thank you for seeing me.
Everything changes inside of #operationselfcarelikewhoa. (pictures on Instagram @hannahmarcotti)
Thank you God. Thank you Universe. Thank you lonely.
Knowing where you are and stating it allows you to change everything. Without that truth, and yes it can take 19 years to find, the next words to the story won’t match up.
Perhaps we all must go through a time of losing ourselves so that we step on this path and journey to our heart’s calling. I am devouring the journey. Lonely is a gift of leading us to discover peace inside.
Finding feathers along my path has allowed me flight and in this flight I can see the beauty surrounding me.
And so it is. Inside of this awakening.
(More on #operationselfcarelikewhoa to come!!)